PASSION FOR TINION (WIP Novel 120,000 words)
© Cupideros, October 21, 2006
CHAPTER 22: WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE II
© Cupideros, Thursday, April 23, 2009
RaydGalil stared and begin reading. There was a button to turn on sound, but he stopped himself. He considered his circumstances. Silth the Universal Raccoon would be nearby. In cameras, yes, in nanotechnology, yes. He would keep the UniViewer horizontal to the rug. But in human form, probably. They’d soon make a knocking noise, on my ceilings and walls, to let me know, they’re watching me doing something I shouldn’t: Watching a investigative newsprogram or an off world report on how the war is going. Reading religious texts. If I didn’t know, from the Gigolo’s advice: Most buildings are 90% walk-through. That means RaydGalil there exists just enough room for a human being to slither behind the walls and ceilings and do repairs. Buildings have been walk-through since the 20th century on old earth. I come from a long line of maintenance men.”
RaydGalil was stunned. “I thought you were some upper class agent connected to your country’s secret service.
“I come from humble beginnings, RaydGalil.”
RaydGalil noticed the screen begin to scroll.
“FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE.BY WORLD QUEEN XI’I THE FIRST WORLD RULER TO LAST MORE THAN 100 DAYS. HELD DURING THE FIFTH YEAR OF HER 500 YEAR REIGN OF WORLD PEACE AND 95% MARRIAGE RATE.
Hi RaydGalil, I am interrupting this report. Someone in our intelligence told me you were never sent to the front. I'm glad. I'm fine. I have a safe job. I do want you to read this report, but I must say something. If you’ve found out how this UniViewer works, I know you are by now under heavy Silth security watch. No doubt, you are heartbroken; love means nothing to Silth. They have sought to make your life a nightmare; turning every good thing into something terrible or problematic. Silth sees every event as an outbreak of further deterioration of national Galan security. Silth may even, by now have, turned you into their body magnet, for further study to see if they can get information out of you. Sleep deprivation by electronic slaps and tiny laser burst and jerking your body extremities here and there just when you enter REM sleep. After a number of days or even weeks, Silth will let you sleep and hope you dream and mumble things about your past. Fear not RaydGalil, you will not die from such attacks. Such is the sordid world we reside in my love, RaydGalil. I, for one, detest all treatments of people like mice in a Skinner box or secret private torture as the underground calls it. This is what this war is all about RaydGalil, my Romeo. Galans want to turn us Quodarians into electronic puppets. If you're thinking of super heros, even Batman, the Capped Crusader, would be meaningless in our world. Even Batman has to go home to his mansion, right. Galans would simply liquify Kroptonite and spritz Superman all over when he went to work as Clark Kent. Any way. This UniViewer has no scroll buttons. Utmost security and scrambled technology beyond the Galan exist inside this UniViewer. It will be at least four hours before Galan security will pick up the special wavelength it operates. So no satellite can grab this text. Do not try to load this onto your laptop because Silth would have already set themselves up inside your computer as Administrators at the safemode level and twenty Silth agents would be reading this World Commission on Love using clear click technology before you read it on your computer screen.
You also know by now. I am a member of QSA, Quodarian Security Agency. I was born into it. That old upper middle class thingy, I guess. We at QSA do believe in individualism, freedom, and abhor all decisions to nano-manage our citizenry. Only those few, who prove beyond a doubt, they are against our entire system is nano-managed and this always comes up for review over here in QSA. We have no White-Opt Teams (WOT), (roaming teams off the books doing private work for QSA). I believe, Silth, may have tried to turn you against me, RaydGalil. Since you did not reply back right away and your letters stopped coming rather quickly, I can safely assume you are a true lover of true love. I did not know whom you were when we met Dear, RaydGalil. And I now know, you didn’t know who I was as well. We are fated lovers. You, my Romeo and I, your Juliet, if only our two families would stop all this fighting. *laughs* Unlike the tragic tale. I’m letting you know, my RaydGalil. I am coming for you somehow, someway. I cannot say when and where, but we’ve contacts inside Galan, as I must assume Galans must have a few agents here in Quodarian. Although it is very hard to fake the 100% scientific point of view, we hold. It is entirely 100% easy to master the 100% psychological point of view of Galans. As you read this FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE, always remember, this World Commission help bring two thousands years of productive peace to old Earth. Remember also, me, your Juliet, TelGara-Waif. By the way, you cannot scroll backwards, so read carefully. The wireless mode has been permanently disabled, RaydGalil. At about this time, Silth should sending a police car racing down your street to cover up the Universal Raccoon trying to position him/herself directly over your shoulders or directly overhead to read the UniViewer.
RaydGalil looked up at the ceiling but saw nothing. Then he hard the screeching police car from far away approaching to drive past his street. RaydGalil looked up at his windows from the floor and saw the flashing lights. He read the UniViewer quickly.
RaydGalil, when the siren stops. Move to a new spot and continue reading. When this World Commission on Love finishes, you will see: Sincerely, TelGara-Waif, Your Juliet and nothing else. At this point, the report will be wiped cleaned. We at QSA are sure Silth can recover it, even in nano form. So the plastic chip will next corrupt itself, making the screen turn black. Then Dear RaydGalil, you must hurriedly take the reader to a safe unburnable place, because the UniViewer will retract itself and then burn itself into a tiny chard no bigger than a small piece of broken pencil lead. You are to blow your nose on a piece of toilet paper, (this is the only way, RaydGalil) and then scoop up the lead and toss the wad down the toilet! Flush the toilet! You may notice afterwards a fire truck (Silth’s favorite way to hide in public) rushing up your street. If they knock on your door, and asks you, “Is the water okay?” You must act confused and say, “What about the Water?” RaydGalil continued reading…
I WORLD QUEEN XI’I formal representative of the World’s People do by convene this FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE. This commission comprises the Five Female Mystics: Iceland’s Marja-Riitta, Japan’s Kesako Ishimaru, Native American’s Rainder Sioux, Congolese Tanzima Lumumba and Peru’s Pucallpia Inca. We pooled the best minds in ten-year-olds Branda Eisenhauer and Wadiya-Khadija Islam; eighteen years olds, Vishemila Novikov and Mexican Amuna Cruz and two anti-psychologist, one historian, three mathematicians and one South African Scholar (for their schools are the wisest in all the world and have been for three centuries now), one engineer, one film maker, and one film maker an award winner and one archeologist, one banker male and one banker female and one diplomat from Venezuela. One educator from Vietnam, Free Alaskan female Eskimo and the famous female Mongolian poet, whom we all know, comprised this commission. For a complete list, see the appendix attached.
The prior three hundred love commissions failed because the brightest so often victims to political groupthink, which we know is, the scourge of our entire planetary history. We are 90% female as females are most concerned and focused on love and from the other three hundred world commissions were dominated by men. Hence, those commissions used the World Commission not for truth finding and agreement, but for propaganda and political power. All of those previous, fake commissions produced no worthwhile benefit to the world. Marriages at a mere forty-five percent during the first fake love commission plummet down to thirty percent after all three hundred fake love commission. If a World Commission does no practical good in the world, that commission must be deemed a fake and failure. We of the FIRST COMMISSION ON LOVE under the First World Ruler, Queen XI’I, to rule for more than hundred days, have found the following presented in the order of importance.
Women find love a practical thing; Men find love as theory. Men see sex as a practical thing; Women see sex, good sex, as theory. This is the first finding of the FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE (WHICH BROUGHT ABOUT TWO THOUSAND YEARS OF PEACE ON EARTH my added note Love).
Women and girls require love because sex requires penetration. This reason alone is why women and girls will never see love and sex like men and boys see love and sex.
Marriage is between a man and a woman. No other type is to exist. The spiritual aspects as to why this is can be consulted under the FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON DUALISM.
Couples can engage in three types of marriages. 1) Marriage for one year. 2) Marriage for five years. 3) Marriage for life. Number 1 Marriage is likely to hold sway amongst those who either do not know themselves or do not want to know others on a long-term basis. Nevertheless, a one year marriage gives each male and female couple a chance to realize their own feelings and experiences in marriage which are not likely to surface when just dating. Just dating has continued for centuries and not let to very many stable love or family relationships. Number 2 Marriage fulfills the animal instincts which we all still sway under. Yes, hard as it is to believe. The human female goes into heat and the males want to mate. With human beings this entire process, unfortunately means the children are not out of the danger zone until five years of age. These marriages are for increasing the family line of humanity on earth. Number 3 marriages usually involve a spiritual component and require mature persons, male and female couples, who want to explore “their differences and sameness under the Abyss’s manifestations” as the Last Prophet CE, so aptly phrased it.
As the two, ten-year olds on the panel suggests, no marriage can exist unless both married members agree love and sex are practical things and not theory. However, since, women and men do not believe or have not even considered this question, it is often overlooked when deciding questions about love. The two ten-year olds do not have a solution, but the FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE, agrees with their astonishing viewpoint!
For women and girls to maintain a man or boy, the man or boy must first be made to see love is a tangible thing, not a theory thing. Women and girls must never make love to a man or boy without extracting a physical equivalent of her penetration from the man. This has been prescribed to come in the form of her delivering slap on the face at the moment a man or boy penetrates the woman or girl. This requires first sex in a limited number of positions. When this occurs, it shocks the man or boy into realizing sex and love are not playful things without consequences of feelings and hurt. The man or boy is jarred out of his theories about powering over the female by penetration and the woman is likewise jarred out of her physical necessary submission in order for the male to enter her. This is only the beginning. The woman or girl must constantly initiate physical contact with the man or boy throughout the relationship, particularly in the early first year. She is to hold his hands. Sit next to him. She is to trade dinner foods and meals. She is feeding him and he is feeding her. She reads to him her favorite lines or short paragraphs from a book and he is to provide her the same opportunity with his favorite material. When they part for the first time, they are to hug for at least three minutes and think about how mutual love and sex have impacted their lives.
The men will find all this hugging, loving stuff, irrelevant. This is the male “Flight From Love” spoken of by Mystics from Iceland’s Marja-Riitta and Japan’s Kesako Ishimaru, as the separation from the Abyss. The Abyss arrives whenever the male and female conjoin themselves. This annihilation is a healthy thing, but is a learned joy and not a naturally expressed one. The man or boy sees his dominance in achieving or pushing reality about. The woman or girl sees her dominance in shaping and nurturing reality’s peaceful existence. In short, the man or boy theorizes about a woman or girl except for her sexuality. He knows she can be penetrated and she feels good. The woman or girl theorizes about a man, except for his love. She knows he can penetrate her, but she does not feel as good about this without love. She wants him to love her without the penetration. Only by instigating a long series of physical contact experiences can the woman or girl convince the man or boy she is a real thing, worth valuing beyond sex.
Upon the first parting after making love, the woman and girl must initiate the man or boy into the Five Mystic’s Handshake. The right hand extended half way from her body, fingers spread wide, touch the fingertips of her man or boy whose hand is extended half way from his body. This mystic handshake brings the souls into quick alignment along their body chi lines. Held for two minutes, these memories goes into the animal brain of man and into his intellectual brain. Hence, the man or boy for the first time will feel a sense of partnership with his female partner never experienced before. Much as a man loves to run about in separation, what does he do? He touches things, handles them, shapes, pull and pushes, tinkers and tries to figure them out. He finds climbing a mountain top more enjoyable than spending time with his woman or girl. Why? Because they sit intellectualizing about things! She talks and he half or does not listen. He wants most to do something. The woman or girl should learn to tackled her man in bed or onto the grass or down on the couch, or jump on him in the pool, anything where more than just her words and her appearance make contact with the man or boy’s awareness. This can seem disturbing at first, but afterwards the man or boy leaves with a fine appreciation of his woman or girl. She should slap him on the shoulder when he does a good job, fixing something around the house. She hands him the tomatoes while they grocery shop and asks him, “Is this fresh? What do you think?” Having read her favorite romance novel chapter by chapter, she and he should tear it apart chapter by chapter into chunks. For he will love this activity, as it gives him his destructive urge. For her, she realizes her natural urge to save the novel by putting it back together. Only this is a dual exercise. They have to remember which chapter was #1, #2 and #3 and so on. Romance novels with chapter names are better for this. Romance novels with chapters 1, 2, 3, are too easy and would bore the man.
If a woman or girl continues to build up a series of tactical experiences with her man or boy, it will be harder for the prostitutes or whores (who are in it for the money, and do not want to be touched more than is necessary in order to get that money) to steal away a woman or girl’s beau. A woman or girl in a normal relationship has a time advantage said, Peru’s Time Mystic Pucallpia Inca. Prostitutes and whores operate legally as criminalizing their activity resulted in wasting time, brought hardship and danger to the women and men alike. What man or boy is going to pay a prostitute or whore to wrestle around with him? What man or boy is going to continue to go to a prostitute or whore week after week for such fun? Those girls in that profession would like the money, sure, but there is a psychic cost to all that extra work. For she is into the quick act, and does not want to marry every man she has sex with. Those girls in that profession who want to marry will find eventually the men or boys tire of them because the relationship was one sided. Men and boys who get tired of sex eventually seek marriage. But what good is marriage if it remains a theory in his head. He, too, wants to know his woman or girl is more than a sex object. But he is confused as to how to bring this about. Those marriages that lasts a long time, lasts because the man and woman or boy and girl have a business enterprise together. They run something both must be there tangibly seeing through everything is all right. This “Triangle Relationship” said Mystic Congolese Tanzima Lumumba is pseudo love. Why not approach love directly? For the man to ask his woman or the boy to ask his girl to touch him more or hold his hand seems unmanly. Why isn’t sex enough, he might think? Why should I feel so needy? Why should a man begin to feel this way? Because these budding feelings of love occurring to the man or boy are squashed down by society’s view of what a man is. So the man runs off and joins the military or goes and plays soccer or goes off to wrestle a bear to the ground or gathers every night with his drinking buddies who then supply this tactical confirmation he is a real live person. The woman or girl, unable or unknowing of how to show a man or boy, he is loved for more than his physical sex.
We do not subscribe to the view the woman or girl should flirt with her man or boy to win his love. This new love is not flirting. It is just the opposite. It is confirmation. She is a person of value who has chosen the man or boy because that man or boy values her beyond sex. Beyond sex. Flirting and seducing says only one thing over and over to a man or boy--she is only a sex object.
If the man or boy does not value his woman or girl beyond, sex; and you cannot achieve this intellectually, that man or boy will surely stray to the next woman or girl who initially will show him his tactical value. The relationship is new; they are in love; they want to touch and feel. This is animal mating at its best. But it does not last long after the mating consummates or children are birthed.
Why doesn’t the man or boy know his woman or girl is more than just sex? Because he’s deficient in understanding love? How small a thing it is for the woman to hold him or bear hug him or tousle his hair every now and then to remind him he is real person and not a theory. How easy for her to meet him eye-to-eye with a Five Mystic Handshake?
If every woman or girl does this, often, the stacked memories of the man or boy serve as a defense when another woman or girl tries to steal him away. Those memories must be fought, if the man or boy is to fall out of love. Falling out of love is a process made difficult the more experiences the couples build up. When a man decides, he is going to play around on the woman or girl, he has decided there is no cost at stake. Why? He has no physical memories except of his wedding, sex, children, paying the bills, a few vacations, dinners. Consider our marriage ceremonies. The woman tosses her flowers and sex scent from her hands to other girls. But the man tosses his new wife’s sex scent (more) on her garter to his buddies! Is it any wonder, the man feels his romantic relationship is a theory and his buddies are the real pals? Starting today, a man tosses his marriage hat worn especially for the occasion.
The women and girls in the past had it right. Feed a man or boy and he will soon come to love you. But the rest of their knowledge was lost after the women fell from power. This raggedy snippet of wise woman lore is the only part that remained. A man should be encouraged to feed his woman; a boy should be encouraged to feed his girl. They should cook together, but do more physical things than just this, too.
Women and girls must break down Beauty’s Door. A woman or girl spends years, decades trying to appeal physically beautiful to a man or boy. But how much time does she spend trying to appeal physically meaningful or physically interesting or physically intellectually to him? None. This same woman or girl will pursue a Your-Not-My-Type guy with proving she is physically interesting in scuba diving, horseback riding or shopping or music. Forget about being beautiful. Try to be a real woman or girl. Go to your man or boy without makeup. Go to your man or boy in ratty underwear. Don’t have any? Save some ratty underwear for this occasion. Get out that old tee shirt from high school or college and wear it. Remember do not use a shirt your girlfriend or sister or any other female has used or you will stir up unconscious trouble. We are still animals at some level. You want your sex scent to stir your man or boy’s imagination. Go to your man with one sock on and one off. Go to your man with your hair all messy. Go to him with a toothbrush in your mouth. Then give your man or boy a reassuring hug and tackled to the bed (be careful with the toothbrush scenario). Dance for him when you are messy and dirty and about to clean up before going out on the town and your man will have more memories of what a woman or girl he is dating. You will seem more real to him and not as some type of model on a fashion magazine page. If your man or boy doesn’t like you dressed or acting like this, you have to asks yourself: Just who is he in love with anyway? Part of you or all of you! When a man moves beyond the sex fantasy of who you are, he moves into the real world of relating to the woman and girl as a person. This will help him when he fantasies about the woman or girl in the short tight yellow skirt down the street or in the party. He’ll think: Sooner or later, I'll see her in ratty underwear, with her hair all messed up, and before she takes a bath. He’ll sigh and stay focused on you! Once the man realizes you are the grass on his side and that other side of the fence, he’ll more likely want to pursue love for a longer time.
Write him a poem and read it to him. Asks him what it means to you? Toss your leg across his legs while you read your poem to him. Engage him in conversations about things, not theories. Love is a theory to him. Love must be transformed from a theory to something practical. While you are all ratty looking, stare him deep into his eyes and asks those scary four words: “Do You Still Love Me?” Wait for an answer if it takes him ten minutes of musing. Men and boys don’t process their feelings very fast or well. If you rush men or boys, they will give you an intellectual theory answer, which is proving, he does not even know you exist. Asks him, if our relationship was a fruit, or tree or country or piece of clothing, what would it be? Again, wait for the answer. He might come back two days later and say, I have figure it out.
A man or boy will only rape a woman or girl he has no conscious love connection with. If he feels you are generic female, he doesn’t feel any especially “Oh it’s Person female” here. If a man or boy rapes his woman or girl, its because he didn’t love her in the first place as a person. She is an object. Objects get used. The more memories a woman or girl builds up as a real person, the harder it is for a man or boy to rape her.
Will a man or boy object to being slapped by his woman or girl during first sex? No because he knows, he is still able to beat her physically. Why does he have to prove it? He will remain puzzled as to what it is all about. The woman provides the answer to his physical quandary. We’ve found men and boys take this rather easy going. When time has passed, they remember it fondly. Men and boys realize when they see a pretty woman naturally strutting, albeit, not for any particular man or boy, they have someone who is real and tangible who loves them and shows it physically too.
So is this FIRST COMMISSION ON LOVE SAYING it is all the woman or girls’ fault Men or boys leave them or do not like marriage? No. We are saying men and boys do not understand love and theories of relationship unless they are made into physical experiences. People learn in various ways. Some are auditory. Other’s visual. Still some are tactical. Then you have those into smells. The male is looking for a physical experience of whatever! He wants one with his woman or girl but does not know how to get her to provide it.
RaydGalil wanted to lay back, take a break, and muse on this FIRST WORLD COMMISSION ON LOVE as he watched the UniViewer screen scroll past a blank line and read…
Sincerely,
Then RaydGalil noticed a flash of light over his right eye, the screen jumped ever so slightly.
TelGara-Waif, Your Juliet
He waited for the screen to go black. It did not. He scrambled downward and backwards over his rug and waited on his stomach watching the screen. The screen stayed lit and another report surfaced.
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